爱情或爱心

今天晚餐我学了很多。。

人生不一定要有爱情但是爱心却不可没有。。

和年纪比较大的大人聊天后，我也开始觉得人生没有爱情也是可以的。。

我也开始有些觉得爱情很渺茫。。

爱情都是‘想要的都永远得不到，但是不想要的却满街’

我觉得这是很平常的。。

我有些想开始多多重视朋友了，因为朋友是永远的。。

但是对爱人付出的爱很容易得就说分手。。

爱情可以很紧固（真心相爱的），也可以很脆弱（虚情假意的）。。

想你也成了一种习惯。。

希望你们会珍惜每一份爱情，爱情都是很珍贵的。。

“想你的习惯”是很不错的一首歌。。

要和一个自己喜欢的人在一起很难。。

希望你们会珍惜对你们好的人。。

有人对你们好是很幸福的，但是有人对你们好不是必定的也不是很应该的。。

只是你们前世收来的福。。

希望你们会欣赏会珍惜。。

LIFE

1st question, "WHAT IS THE MAIN POINT OF LIVING???"

2nd question, "WHAT is the PURPOSE that YOU THINK U should HAVE IN LIVING???"

In my opinion, we live because parents give birth to us..

There can be thousand faces of life purpose :

TO BE HAPPY

TO EARN AS MUCH AS YOU CAN

TO DO WHATEVER WE THINK IS RIGHT

TO BE WHAT WE WANT IN OUR FUTURE

TO HAVE A GREAT CAREER

etc..........

As the EXAMPLES given..

Which maybe chosen in your heart...

let me do a conclusion on these..

thing all of above will give us the HAPPINESS THAT WE THOUGHT or NEEDED or WANTED

if anything happen, just let it be...

try to make things simple, and try to do things that me ourselves happy..

HAPPY is the main things we live for..

but, we must plan for time to be HAPPY...

not always wasting our time to only do things that make us HAPPY..

the opposite will be very NEAR, SAD

OVER doing of things that make us HAPPY, the SAD will come to US..

EVERYTHING is the SAME

OVER DOING will let the opposite seek for US..

E.G.

too many good things will bring bad to us..

( if we do a lot of good things, the bad guy will seek for us)

too healthy will easily bring sickness to us..

( easily will be infected by virus or bacteria)

too happy will bring us back to the moment of sad..

( too many entertainment will get us in trouble of STUDIES&WORKS, lack of time on doing the right thing)

this will be the way of mentioning, time will "solve" the problem...

anyway...

GOOD LUCK to people that in trouble, hope we can control our TIME better..

FACES that people owns

how many faces do u think u own??

1 face or 2 faces??

for me, people have more that 2 faces..

let me gv some examples:

face in front of ur *parents*..

face in front of ur *lover*..

face in front of ur *good frenz*..

face in front of ur *enemies frenz*..

face in a situation of *madness*..

ETC..

this is on my opinion, people own a lot of faces..

at the 1st, we'll not notice about the 2nd or 3rd faces that our frenz own..

but after sometimes, the 2nd or 3rd faces will came up to us..

we always think that people who had 2 faces is very horrible..

but thr is still more faces that we hvnt notice..

time will show us the faces that hvnt been reveal..

so dun feel weird that frenz hv 2 faces..

the reason maybe, our frenz wanted to protect themselves or background personalities affected..

i own this experience myself, but silence is a good weapons to face frenz like that..

we should forgive them that hving more then 2 faces, this is because they lack of secure to us..

let's the secure bring them out the extra faces..

let's hope that the faces that own by our frenz is good to us..

n we should believe our frenz n be positive minded about our frenz..

FRENZ is very IMPORTANT~~

Personality

few hours before, i`m doing my CB (consumer behavior) tutorial..

this "personality" had touch my mind about a lot of things besides me..

personality = tastes, characteristics, thinking concept, etc.

y all people are so different???

y all people need to be different??

y can`t all be the same...

it will be a better tomorrow if everyone has the same personality..

the market no need to produce so many different product, design of the product, and many more..

people just need 1 good for all people..

everything will become very easy..

the different personality make my world become so complicated..

it is very hard to understand people around..

but personality make us found our precious 1, soulmate..

don`t blame ourself for the bad personality or characteristics..

because it made us the most special and only 1..

this world is a balance world..

everything is equal..

good % = bad %

happy % = sad %

male % = female %

this make the yin and yang in CHINA..

even bad guy will not mention that they are the bad guy..

so don`t look down on ourself..

the world will still move slowly and we will change slowly..

i hope and i know tomorrow sure will be better..

don`t sigh for now but cheer up for a better hope tomorrow..

"HAPPY GOES LUCKY"

is very hard to do it, but we try our best..

GAMBATEH~!!

酒

酒可以帮我们解决问题吗？？

答案是：不可以。。

它只是可以把问题给暂时忘掉。。

明天醒来后，问题还是一样会出现。。

酒只是把我们的烦恼暂时停留在我们喝醉的时候。。

如果我们真的有烦恼要解决，那是不应该喝酒的。。

我们应该把我们的脑袋保持清醒。。

好让我们可以做出对的决定而不是不小心的犯错，我们喝醉的时候可能会说真话也可能说气话。。

我们不应该用喝酒来暂时解决问题。。

那只是拖慢我们解决问题所在。。

但是。。

有时我们也是需要暂时的停留，好让我们的脑袋暂时休息。。

但是那不是解决问题的方法。。

希望我们不会用喝酒来解决问题。。

那是没用的。。