2nd question, "WHAT is the PURPOSE that YOU THINK U should HAVE IN LIVING???"
In my opinion, we live because parents give birth to us..
There can be thousand faces of life purpose :
TO BE HAPPY
TO EARN AS MUCH AS YOU CAN
TO DO WHATEVER WE THINK IS RIGHT
TO BE WHAT WE WANT IN OUR FUTURE
TO HAVE A GREAT CAREER
etc..........
As the EXAMPLES given..
Which maybe chosen in your heart...
let me do a conclusion on these..
thing all of above will give us the HAPPINESS THAT WE THOUGHT or NEEDED or WANTED
if anything happen, just let it be...
try to make things simple, and try to do things that me ourselves happy..
HAPPY is the main things we live for..
but, we must plan for time to be HAPPY...
not always wasting our time to only do things that make us HAPPY..
the opposite will be very NEAR, SAD
OVER doing of things that make us HAPPY, the SAD will come to US..
EVERYTHING is the SAME
OVER DOING will let the opposite seek for US..
E.G.
too many good things will bring bad to us..
( if we do a lot of good things, the bad guy will seek for us)
too healthy will easily bring sickness to us..
( easily will be infected by virus or bacteria)
too happy will bring us back to the moment of sad..
( too many entertainment will get us in trouble of STUDIES&WORKS, lack of time on doing the right thing)
this will be the way of mentioning, time will "solve" the problem...
anyway...
GOOD LUCK to people that in trouble, hope we can control our TIME better..